James Hillman – 18 Quotes

18 Quotes by James Hillman

All we can do when we think of kids today is think of more hours of school, earlier age at the computer, and curfews. Who would want to grow up in that world?

– James Hillman

Depression opens the door to beauty of some kind.

– James Hillman

The culture is going into a psychological depression. We are concerned about our place in the world, about being competitive: Will my children have as much as I have? Will I ever own my own home? How can I pay for a new car? Are immigrants taking away my white world?

– James Hillman

We approach people the same way we approach our cars. We take the poor kid to a doctor and ask, What’s wrong with him, how much will it cost, and when can I pick him up?

– James Hillman

I don’t think anything changes until ideas change. The usual American viewpoint is to believe that something is wrong with the person.

– James Hillman

Loss means losing what was We want to change but we don’t want to lose. Without time for loss, we don’t have time for soul.

– James Hillman

We can’t change anything until we get some fresh ideas, until we begin to see things differently.

– James Hillman

The older people that one admires seem to be fearless. They go right out into the world. It’s astounding. Maybe they can’t see or they can’t hear, but they walk out into the street and take life as it comes. They’re models of courage, in a strange way.

– James Hillman

Everything that everyone is afraid of has already happened: The fragility of capitalism, which we don’t want to admit the loss of the empire of the United States and American exceptionalism. In fact, American exceptionalism is that we are exceptionally backward in about fifteen different categories, from education to infrastructure.

– James Hillman

Fear is a huge thing for older people.

– James Hillman

I see happiness as a by-product. I don’t think you can pursue happiness. I think that phrase is one of the very few mistakes the Founding Fathers made.

– James Hillman

Just stop for a minute and you’ll realize you’re happy just being. I think it’s the pursuit that screws up happiness. If we drop the pursuit, it’s right here.

– James Hillman

In the history of the treatment of depression, there was the dunking stool, purging of the bowels of black bile, hoses, attempts to shock the patient. All of these represent hatred or aggression towards what depression represents in the patient.

– James Hillman

Psychotherapy theory turns it all on you: you are the one who is wrong. If a kid is having trouble or is discouraged, the problem is not just inside the kid it’s also in the system, the society.

– James Hillman

The word power has such a generally negative implication in our society. What are people talking about? Are they talking about muscles, or control?

– James Hillman

We’re an air bag society that wants guarantees on everything that we buy. We want to be able to take everything back and get another one. We want a 401-k plan and Social Security.

– James Hillman

You don’t attack the grunts of Vietnam you blame the theory behind the war. Nobody who fought in that war was at fault. It was the war itself that was at fault. It’s the same thing with psychotherapy.

– James Hillman

It’s very hard to know what wisdom is.

– James Hillman